Diagnosed with Cancer at 19 Years Old
- Stand Up Dude

- 5 days ago
- 2 min read
We have all faced moments where life changes in an instant. Whether it is a difficult medical diagnosis or a sudden personal crisis, these moments test the core of who we are as men. On a recent episode of the Stand Up Dude Podcast, we sat down with Samuel Westfall to discuss his journey after being diagnosed with incurable cancer at age 19. His perspective offers a powerful roadmap for any man navigating suffering, career pressure, or a search for deeper meaning.
Cancer Shifting the Scoreboard
At 19, Samuel was focused on traditional markers of success: building a business and out-performing his peers. A terminal diagnosis changed his metrics instantly. He began to ask a singular, vital question: “What will I say when God asks, ‘What did you do to spread my kingdom?’”
For men, society often defines our value by our paycheck or status. However, true success is found in how we serve others and invest in eternal things.
Three steps to realign your purpose:
Audit your metrics: Are you measuring your life by promotions or by the quality of your relationships and service?
Consult the Leader: Bring God into your daily business and family decisions.
End the "Solo" Mission: Stop trying to handle everything alone. Find a brotherhood of men who will hold you accountable.
Strength Through Surrender
The "tough it out" mentality often prevents men from finding the peace they need. Samuel shared that his greatest moments of clarity didn't come from internal grit, but from the vulnerability of asking for prayer and support.
When life feels like a "sucker punch," professional and personal growth begins in the places we usually avoid: honesty about our fears and a willingness to rely on others. Real courage isn’t the absence of fear; it is the decision to trust God’s promises when your own plans have turned to ash.
Practical Steps for the Journey
If you are currently navigating a "storm"—whether in your career, health, or family—here is a direct approach to moving forward:
Engage with Scripture Daily: Consistency matters more than intensity. Build a foundation on truth, even when you don't "feel" like it.
Pray with Honesty: Skip the formalities. Tell God exactly where you are and what you need.
Find Your Unit: Join a small group or a Bible study. Isolation is the enemy of progress; brotherhood is a tactical necessity.
The Big Challenge
If today was your final day, what would you regret? Do not wait for a crisis to start living with intention.
We challenge you to identify one area where you need to say "yes" to God’s leading, even if it feels uncomfortable. Whether that means repairing a relationship, changing your career priorities, or finally asking for help, the time to act is now.
Watch the full conversation with Samuel Westfall here: https://youtu.be/F7gFUI5J3zk
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